Hello all,
I just wanted to let you know that I won't be posting as often this summer. Things are very much up in the air and I need time to collect everything together into a concise thought. Also, I will be on a couple vacations so I will be away from the internet for quite some time. While my relationship remains stable with my sailor his relationship with the Navy is not. Anthony isn't the same since his most recent trip out to see. He returned this morning and was very different from when he left. We both saw this change emerging when he left and now it is full blown. He still holds onto his hope of leaving the Navy for good. An option, which I think, is truly the best for him. If he stays in the Navy he won't come out alive. If only he had consulted me before he made the decision to join, this whole situation could have been avoided. I would have pointed out to him all the ways in which he is not compatible with military life. I do realize that he needed to go in order to find out that it wouldn't work. The Navy also helped him to appreciate the life he had before and how important all the people are who love him. As for now we are trying to come to a peaceful agreement so he can make his way back home. I will return when I have a better grip on the situation. Until then, good luck to all sailors and their families.
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